An Invitation to Connect

I don't remember the exact moment the dream crystallized, but it's been there forever—this deep knowing that I'm meant to bring women together in beautiful spaces to explore what's truly possible. This is the story of how I finally stopped waiting, committed to my first destination retreat, and learned that trust isn't just something I teach—it's something I have to practice every single day.

Twenty-one years is a long time to be on your own journey. Long enough to raise two sons, build a life wholly your own, and learn who you actually are. When I said yes to marriage again, I brought everything I'd learned—and I've never been more ready for anything in my life.

For most of my life, I was terrified. Not of failing—of wanting. I was the good girl who colored inside every line, making decisions from fear instead of vision. I needed certainty, safety, guarantees. And I was miserable.

When I finally listened to my inner wisdom, everything changed. Divorce wasn't the end of my story—it was the beginning of learning what it means to take big swings.

Here's what I've discovered: big swings get big results. Yes, you might miss sometimes. But you'll hit home runs far more often than if you never step up to the plate. Small swings? That's chipping away at your life slowly, "responsibly"—while your deepest desires gather dust.

There's a cost to staying safe. To being "responsible" in ways that keep you small. To choosing comfort over courage. In this piece, I share why we don't take big swings, what it costs us when we don't, and 5 practical strategies for building your big swing practice.